I am a fairly independent kind of person. I can drive a car, I can iron a reasonably straight line in my trousers, I can boil an egg perfectly. (That last one is a lie) I was reading something quite nasty on the Internet about how Christians are a bit pathetic – leaning as they need to on a God who insists on being top dog and in charge all the time. I thought about it for a while because it is true – we do. Why would a reasonably grown up person like me be happy with this kind of arrangement? It’s a fair question I think.
When I see the statement above, it makes me comforted, secure, in safe hands. It doesn’t make me feel as if I am in some kind of abusive relationship.
Mainly it’s about the kind of God that God is. I’m from the north – we are sharp as tacks – I wouldn’t choose to worship any old god type entity. To belong to God is to belong to someone who always has my best interests at heart. It is to be a part of something where someone who always gets it right, invites me in to see how it is done. It is to draw alongside something so beyond my normal comprehension that things happen that I would never expect. It is to see an impossibly high standard set for me with no condemnation when I fail. Then there is the love. This God loves me. This God loves me without cause. This God loved me enough to send his son to die for me. I owe this God an immeasurable debt, yet the only repayment he asks is that I allow him to set me free. 
So you have a point when you say that I am subservient. I do look in awe and worship. But it is a truth that we all worship – something or other – money, power, popularity even (heaven help us) clean eating. Christians get to worship someone whose position of God in the relationship gives us comfort, security and surprisingly, a chance to be ourselves – free as birds. Strange how that works isn’t it?



  1. January 30, 2017 / 6:51 am

    I acknowledge quite openly that I am not able to get there on my own and I need someone stronger. Maybe that does make me 'weak and pathetic'. But if I AM going to look to another for the strength I need, I have yet to find a better choice than the One who created me and knows me best. He loves me and I trust him.

    • January 30, 2017 / 3:32 pm

      And when you write it out like that, it seems adult and mature – which of course, knowing ourseves is.

  2. February 16, 2017 / 2:44 pm

    To what you say in this post – my 'Amen'.

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