Me How are you?
Her Well, really well. Much better.
Me You look well.
Her Thanks, I feel so much better since I made things right with *****
Me How did that go then?
Her Good. I told her how I felt, about things. How hurt I was by her actions and that I had been quite vengeful in my thinking towards her but that I had accepted that she didn’t mean to upset me so much and I had forgiven her and I was happy to move on.
Me Well that’s lovely. How did she feel about that?
Her She was a bit surprised. She had no idea that there was a problem until I told her.
Sometimes I think forgiveness is very much a clear the air/talk it through thing. Sometimes, maybe, it’s just a you and God thing. A thinking good things about people thing. A private decision to move on thing. Maybe some things are better left unsaid.